Older otter. Married to a woman. All men jack off. Why pretend otherwise? At some point in our lives, most of us have climbed onto a bed pillow and humped it, yet this too is something that we never acknowledge. There is so much hypocrisy about common experiences every man shares with every other man. We should share what we know and like with each other. The world is changing. The younger generations seem to be a lot more open to the idea that there can be fluidity to sexual desires. And dads, talking to their sons about sex, should be more honest in explaining that there are all kinds of willing holes, potential partners and activities to go after (safely). How many of us were blinded by desire at age 16 and could have used practical advice to think beyond the obvious?